Watch what you say. The words you use to speak about yourself are the crystallizations of your thoughts.
When you use words like "always" and "never" pay attention to what comes afterwards... "I always do this wrong. I'm always late. I can never get ahead. I never have enough money to do the things I want. Things like this always happen to me. No one ever notices the good things that I do" ... Keep saying things like this, and guess what will continue to always or never happen? Literally our words are like spells.
What kind of world do you want to create? Change your words and your world will change.
Perhaps you can say "In the past this situation would have been challenging for me, but now I'm excited to see how I can creatively solve this problem" or "I don't know what will happen, I haven't tried to do that today."
For you see, in each moment you are an entirely new person. You have lost and regrown sooooo many cells in the last 24 hours that you are LITERALLY a new person! Allow yourself to surprise yourself! You could have had a dream last night where you remembered you were a professional singer - even though singing has "always" terrified you - but today you are a totally new person, so you start to hum a little, then you start to sing, then you realize you LOVE the sound of your own voice, then a neighbor hears you singing and his friend who is a producer hears you and wants to bring you to his studio to do a demo - then a month later you're on stage singing to a sold out show!! WHO KNOWS what magic is around the corner - IF you allow it.
It all starts with how you speak to yourself. And this starts with awareness. You are creating your world with your words.
Choose them wisely. 💙💙💙